Jayd Lovely Blog

When I’m at the gym, I literally don’t have any make-up on, in sweats, and have my ipod on blasting Brittany Spears. I’m in there working out hard because I take my workouts seriously. My hair is even bundled up in a bun or half ass ponytail-barely combed through. This to me; would show anyone thinking with their big head that I don’t want to be bothered. I’m there to work out, not to be hit on. Yet, every now and then I get some creep who wants to stare and follow me around. Sometimes they say something to me, which then I can lie and say I have a boyfriend and that usually gives them a clue. One time, though, this guy responded back as saying we could still be friends. I was like, no, I already have enough friends. Come on dude, I know you don’t want to be JUST friends. I didn’t say that last part to him though. And sometimes, they don’t say anything at all to you so you can’t really blurt out, “I have a boyfriend, leave me alone!” because they haven’t technically hit on you. Well, there was a guy yesterday who was totally oblivious to the fact that everyone knew he was staring at me. He was making it so obvious! And he had the nerve to follow me around and when I was at the end of my work out, stretching and doing abs, he came by me (even though there was no one else around) and decided to place his keys and water bottle right next to mine. Again, there’s plenty of room for him to do this, but he decided to put his shit practically on top of mine. He then started to stretch his neck and arms right in front of me and stare. I was so pissed at this point because he was being so obvious and annoying. Ugh! I wanted to punch him in the balls, lol. So basically, my ab work out got cut early yesterday because I had to leave right then and there. I hope I don’t run into him again. Geez! I think the only time you should hit on a girl at the gym is if 1) she hits on you 2) you actually run into each other all the time i.e. take spin classes together or do yoga every Sunday or 3) if she’s all done up at the gym. She’s got her make-up on, hair done and is barely working out. I mean, this is the girl just flirting and chatting with everyone with a little leg press here and there. Those girls are there to meet people, not the ones that look like they forgot to look in the mirror or brush their teeth that day i.e. me. And if you are staring at a girl, because I’ve done it a few times when hot girls are working out, don’t make it so obvious that she feels uncomfortable. Trust me, she knows you’re looking at her and if she’s interested, she’ll make a move.

Sorry for venting, it just aggravates me sometimes! Most of the time, though, people leave me alone or are nice and let me be after a few minutes of chi-chat. Ugh! I just had to get that off my chest. Now I’m going to masturbate and release this tension.

XOXO,

Jayd Lovely