Summer and Sultry Girls

Friday, June 26, 2009

I’ve used that word, sultry. I don’t know about you, but sometimes I use a word that I kind of know the meaning; but when someone asks me what it means, I don’t have a complete definition. That’s when I know I need to go to my favorite dictionary to make sure I know. “It’s so sultry here in Phoenix.” Or better yet, “When I’m at the pool I feel sultry.” What does that mean?

So here I go to the dictionary. OK, it’s an adjective with several meanings. Some meanings apply to the weather; but many of them also apply to a person. For example, moist, emitting great heat, arousing passion. That’s where I fit in. I want to be a sultry girl! I have a way of doing my sultry thing. Sometimes I am more sultry than others. Like if I’m at a club, I like to wear something really sexy. Something body-clinging. Something that shows as much of my breasts as I can show and still be legal. Oh, if a boobie pops out here and there after a drink or two, who is going to complain, right?

Then there’s the pool. Oh, now I can really be sultry there. I can put on my tiniest most skimpy g-string bikini and strut around all the people sunning themselves. My most favorite spots are hotels and pool parties. At pool parties, at people’s homes, I can get as almost naked as possible in what I am wearing. Some hotels are not too conservative. Like if I go to Hawaii or Las Vegas, I make sure I stay somewhere that doesn’t have rules on attire at the pool. My feeling is that if you don’t get in trouble, show as much as possible. How do you feel about that? If you go to a party or stay at a hotel, aren’t you there for fun and adventure? Wouldn’t you prefer venturing out to the pool and seeing a girl sunning with hardly anything on?

Now that it’s summer time I can pretty much assure you I will be as sultry as I can manage to be while still not having to appear in court on indecent exposure charges! I will be writing more about this as it happens.

XOXO,

Jayd Lovely

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Gym Stalkers, Creeps, Weirdos, and my favorite, Retards!

Friday, May 8, 2009

When I’m at the gym, I literally don’t have any make-up on, in sweats, and have my ipod on blasting Brittany Spears. I’m in there working out hard because I take my workouts seriously. My hair is even bundled up in a bun or half ass ponytail-barely combed through. This to me; would show anyone thinking with their big head that I don’t want to be bothered. I’m there to work out, not to be hit on. Yet, every now and then I get some creep who wants to stare and follow me around. Sometimes they say something to me, which then I can lie and say I have a boyfriend and that usually gives them a clue. One time, though, this guy responded back as saying we could still be friends. I was like, no, I already have enough friends. Come on dude, I know you don’t want to be JUST friends. I didn’t say that last part to him though. And sometimes, they don’t say anything at all to you so you can’t really blurt out, “I have a boyfriend, leave me alone!” because they haven’t technically hit on you. Well, there was a guy yesterday who was totally oblivious to the fact that everyone knew he was staring at me. He was making it so obvious! And he had the nerve to follow me around and when I was at the end of my work out, stretching and doing abs, he came by me (even though there was no one else around) and decided to place his keys and water bottle right next to mine. Again, there’s plenty of room for him to do this, but he decided to put his shit practically on top of mine. He then started to stretch his neck and arms right in front of me and stare. I was so pissed at this point because he was being so obvious and annoying. Ugh! I wanted to punch him in the balls, lol. So basically, my ab work out got cut early yesterday because I had to leave right then and there. I hope I don’t run into him again. Geez! I think the only time you should hit on a girl at the gym is if 1) she hits on you 2) you actually run into each other all the time i.e. take spin classes together or do yoga every Sunday or 3) if she’s all done up at the gym. She’s got her make-up on, hair done and is barely working out. I mean, this is the girl just flirting and chatting with everyone with a little leg press here and there. Those girls are there to meet people, not the ones that look like they forgot to look in the mirror or brush their teeth that day i.e. me. And if you are staring at a girl, because I’ve done it a few times when hot girls are working out, don’t make it so obvious that she feels uncomfortable. Trust me, she knows you’re looking at her and if she’s interested, she’ll make a move.

Sorry for venting, it just aggravates me sometimes! Most of the time, though, people leave me alone or are nice and let me be after a few minutes of chi-chat. Ugh! I just had to get that off my chest. Now I’m going to masturbate and release this tension.

XOXO,

Jayd Lovely

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You make me want to wiggle it like a dog!

Saturday, April 25, 2009

That’s the chorus to this rap song I just heard, lol! Isn’t that funny and hot at the same time? Doggy-style is one of my favorite positions of all time. There’s just something really hot about a guy fucking you from behind, especially if he has a firm grip on your lower hips and ass. Ahhh, it’s making me all hot just thinking about it. I like how submissive the position is and how a guy can really man-handle you in doggy. It’s the best when he has a firm grip on your hips and pulls you towards him as he’s thrusting deep in you. Mmmm…it’s heaven. Every now and then, I like it when a guy grabs a chunk of my hair from the bottom of my neck and tugs a little. That’s also really hot and passionate. What better way to devour a hard cock than to do it with your head down, and ass up? What’s your favorite position?

I also like being on top when I first start having sex with someone new. Probably because I know my body, so I can make myself get off easier since he doesn’t how everything works on me. I have to have an orgasm every time I have sex, otherwise, what’s the point? But once I get acquainted with someone for a while, I actually prefer him on top, so I can trace my fingers along his chest and shoulders. I also like it if he gives me a reach around in that position and plays with my pussy lips and asshole. Kinky, huh? I know, lol. Well, if we ever meet and have sex, you’ll know how to rock my world! Oh! And if I’m getting eaten out, I like it when he inserts a finger or two inside while he licks my clit. I don’t like it being sucked too hard…softer is better because my clit is super sensitive. When I cum, I also like it if he stops what he’s doing and just lets me ride out my orgasm. They are so strong, like a guy, so it’s super sensitive and any touching afterwards just causes irritation or discomfort. Oh! And if I pass out right after sex, take that as a compliment. It’s my favorite thing to do after a good session of fucking. And when I wake up, don’t be surprised if I want to ride it again! I like to cuddle too, but only if it’s with someone I really like. If it’s like a one-night stand or something, I prefer to get in and out. Cuddling is a form of affection and if it’s just sex, then it feels too awkward and fake, which ruins the experience of fucking.

All this talk about sex reminds me that I need to take care of myself tonight! Don’t want to be all cranky for the weekend or deprived! I hate one-night stands so I try and take care of myself so I don’t fall in desperate measures, lol! I’d rather save myself for someone I know and enjoy, like myself! Well loves, off to bed for I am in for some fun!

XOXO,

Jayd Lovely
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Love is in the Air

Friday, April 10, 2009

No, I haven’t fallen in love with someone, but have fallen in love with something! It’s called sensational lubrication! Ooo-la-la and it feels sooo good! It’s a lubrication that tingles when you rub it on. It kind of warms up and then sends these little tingles and tickles through your body! I bought it from my girlfriend’s passion party where she gathered a group of girls at her house to show them new lingerie, toys, lubes, adult novelties, and funny sex-themed candy. It was a fun way to get all the girls together and laugh. Anyways, we all tried this lube against the skin of our arms. I was really shocked how much added sensation I was feeling so I had to buy it! Well, last night, was the first time I used it on my clit and it gave me one of the hardest orgasms that I have ever felt! It sent my orgasm down through my legs and straight to my toes! I’m getting all horny just thinking about it! I just lightly glazed it on the top of my clit and waited a few seconds before it started tingling…then I started rubbing myself and its intensity increased. I then put some more lube on my fingers and started to bang my tight, wet hole, which really warmed things up! My clit got really swelled and it only took a few finger bangs and a flick here and there before I climaxed! That’s how strong this thing was! If only you could feel it for yourself! Now if I can find a guy to fuck me with it, I’d be set! Do I have any takers? How could something so small be so strong? I’m seriously in love with this thing. I’m going to have to do a video for you all to see it firsthand! Tonight I plan on trying it on my ass and clit at the same time. Yes, I’m taking it up a notch, lol. Hopefully, it doesn’t burn it. Maybe I should read the instructions and warning label first? Anyways, this thing is definitely a keeper and I plan on using it now every time I masturbate. I love it when my toes curl and this baby sure did the trick. If you haven’t tried lubrication like this, you have to go out and buy some. There are a ton of them at your local adult store but I would ask the attendant which one they prefer, only because Iíve tried some in the past that didnít do crap. That’s why I was initially hesitant on buying it but thought if I could feel a tingle on my forearm, I’d be sure to feel a lot of tingle down there. And for once, I was right. It makes not having a man okay for the time being…but I’m sure that will pass too. Where is my prince charming? I hope he comes before I cum, haha! Okay loves, have a great week and I’ll talk to you next week…unless my fingers are too numb to type from rubbing it out all night!

Dirty girl,

Me, xo!

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First Dates…

Saturday, February 21, 2009

For first dates, I usually prefer to go out to eat. It doesn’t have to be at a pricey restaurant, but definitely not at a loud bar where we have to talk or shout over the noise. Somewhere right in the middle…I love trying new restaurants so it’s nice if he’s been there and can help guide me through the menu or different dishes. Not to mention, really sexy when a guy can educate me about new things.

After our meal, I like doing something active. I’m not much of a drinker so going to a bar doesn’t really appeal to me and since I want to try and get to know you, I don’t like going to movies and spending 2 hours beside each other without saying a word to each other. Actually, I think going to the movies for a first date is a horrible idea unless you can tell you’re not compatible at dinner, then it’s okay to suggest going to the movies? Going bowling, miniature golfing, hiking, rock climbing, roller skating, bike riding, going for coffee or dessert are far better choices. This way, it’s still intimate and gives me the opportunity to really see your personality.

First dates are usually nerve wracking and awkward anyways, so it’s nice to be in a setting where you can goof off and flirt with each other.

The worst date I ever had was when I went to dinner with this guy and afterwards he wanted to go to the strip club. The strip club part didn’t bother me too much because I could already tell he wasn’t my type during dinner. I thought we could still be friends and I love strip clubs so going wasn’t an issue for me. The ride there was, though. I remember him parking in the lot and whipping out a bag of cocaine from his pocket. He then asked me if I “partied?” I just looked at him and said, “No, I don’t do drugs at all.” He seemed a bit embarrassed, but snorted away. Once we went into the strip club I excused myself to the bathroom and called my girlfriend to pick me up. That was pretty much the end of the date. I still haven’t run into the guy and it’s been so long, I don’t even know if I’d recognize him. It was the shortest and worst date that I’ve ever had, lol. Who does that? Wow.

Anyways, for the most part, all of my dates have been nice. Fortunately for me, everyone else has been on their best behavior, but no one has sparked my interest. Sometimes they seem too cocky, not mannered enough, or don’t have their life together. I’ll admit I’m a bit picky, but my Mother has always told me to be because I’m worth it. Why settle for less? Hmmm…wonder if I’ll ever find Mr. Right? Any takers? :)

XOXO,

Jayd Lovely

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Happy Valentines Day

Friday, February 13, 2009

Well, it’s officially tomorrow, but wanted to make sure I wished you a good one! Who’s my Valentine this year? My really good girlfriend Lisa. We’re both single this year and decided to be each other’s Valentine to celebrate our awesome-ness! We’re going to do a nominal gift exchange over dinner at a nice, upscale restaurant. I think we may do Bourban Steakhouse in Scottsdale! Never been there, but heard their steaks are to die for.

Now, If you were my main squeeze, we would go to a nice dinner (because I love to eat) and have dessert back at home. Once we’d get back to your place, I’d take off your shoes and slowly undress you with just my teeth. Don’t be nervous, I don’t bite. After all your clothes are off, I’d shower your entire body with kisses and licks. It’d be a small gesture in showing my appreciation for you on this lovely night. The music in the background would be a soft blend of jazz and the candles would provide a more intimate, romantic setting for us. It’s nice to dress up the bedroom, too. I would then reach under the bed and bring out a jar of chocolate fudge and a painting brush. Yummy. I’d slowly brush it on your nipples and give them a good lick. It would taste so sweet on my palate and tingle your senses. Then I would brush it down your chest, down to your naval and around it, then down your thigh and around your dick. I would then trace my brush strokes with my own tongue…licking every new chocolate trail on your body. You’d begin to squirm at the sheer pleasure in it. Right when it’s time to suck your cock, I’d pour some fudge on it and then have at it like a child in a candy store. I would suck your dick like a popsicle fudge stick. Bobbing my head up and down, fast, and slow until your dick was super hard. I’d tickle and suck your balls and get right back onto sucking it. Your dick would feel really naughty against the back of my throat when I’d begin to deep throat it. You’d moan in ecstasy and I’d be able to feel your dick get really hard. Right before you’d cum, I’d swallow your cock whole and slowly lick up towards the head as you cum down my throat. The mixture of your semen and chocolate drives me wild. I want more and continue licking and sucking it slow. I make sure to swallow and lick every drop of cum and chocolate on that body. Delicious! Now, that’s what I call a dessert! And that’s what we would do on Valentine’s day!

Well, I hope you have a great night tomorrow even if you are single. Hopefully, there’s someone you can celebrate with or maybe you can think of me when you’re tucked in bed? Think of me as being that eager little cupid wanting it’s bow and arrow. Either way, enjoy some candy tomorrow. It’s always nice to pleasure our palates with some sugar and spice. Happy Valentines Loves! :) XO

Extra kisses and hugs,

Jayd Lovely

I’m a Women’s Woman

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Ah! What can I say? I was at a night lounge last night catching up with a few friends over some drinks. I was having coffee of course, enjoying the swank melodies of tunes in the background and having a good time. We had been in the lounge for a few hours now so the crowd was getting louder and drunker. My girlfriend sets out to find some hot, single guys to rape, but ends up meeting a friendly couple. He was really tall with broad shoulders, and she was petite and curvy. She had beautiful blond hair and a tight black dress that cupped her boobies really tight. You could tell she was older, but her skin was flawless and body toned. I’m not really into blonds that much, but she had a great smile and cute dimples. Plus, her personality was very affectionate and warm. I guess you could even say she was a cougar, but then again, aren’t cougars single? We start chit chatting with them about where they’re from, how long they’re in town for, etc. The wife is sloshed and asks me to take her to the bathroom. Well, I don’t know if she really asked, it was more like grabbing my arm and saying, “where’s the bathroom?” So I take her to the women’s stalls and wait for her. When she’s done, she washes her hands in the sink, tells me how beautiful I am and begins to freshen up her make-up. I ask her if I can use some of her lip gloss as mine has tapered off. After she applies it to her lips, she turns to me and plants a hard, wet kiss on me. When we unlock, she smiles and says, “Now, I know you can do better than that!” And kisses me again. This time, I open my mouth and we start kissing against the wall. Her perfume smells of Gucci and her breasts are firmly mounted against mine. She tastes good and I massage her head to pull her closer. She then grabs my breasts, gives it a squeeze and then moves down my stomach and between my legs. She takes a good hold of my kitty and gives it a grab. I start giggling and so does she. She asks me if I want to go back to their hotel room tonight and I tell her I can’t. I have a long day ahead of me tomorrow and I really didn’t know the dynamics of her and her husband too well. That can always be a sticky situation, no pun intended. So I tell her I can’t but we exchange numbers. After re-applying our lip glosses the right way this time and straightening out our hairs, we leave the bathroom and join her husband and my girlfriend. I told my girlfriend about what had happened in the bathroom on our way home and she just laughed, “You’re such a women’s woman! They flock to you! Why is that?” And I replied, “It must be my good looks and charm.”

As I’m writing this to you, I wonder what her husband thought when she told him. To be a guy and so close to having a threesome! It might have been fun if I did go to bed with them, but then again, I didn’t have any sexy lingerie on and for me, that’s all apart of a good show! Maybe they’ll be back and we can all go out again? If so, I’ll be prepared with some thigh highs, garter strap, and racy bra! As for the panties, should I wear a thong or none at all?

Sweet Kisses,

Jayd Lovely

I love my Mom

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

My Mom is the most calm natured, good hearted person I have ever met. She truly is content with what she has and where she’s at in life. She also has the most beautiful soul that’s very aware of others who surround her. Not only that, but she always makes me Thai ice tea, coffee, and feeds me plenty when I visit her in CA. She lives in W. Minister in little Vietnam. Usually, we’ll go out to eat when I see her and then walk around a few malls. We both love to window shop and just walk around. Sure, if we find something, we’ll buy it, but we usually enjoy catching up while on a material stroll :)

My Mother has very light, olive skin. Much lighter than my natural tanned glow. She also has long, black and wavy hair. I have naturally straight hair. We share the same eyes, nose, and lips. I get my darker features from my Dad and his height. My Mom is kind of tall for an Asian woman. She’s also very curvy with natural D bosoms! I had to buy mine, lol. Sometimes, you can find us at the movies or even in little vietnam in CA, walking through the little shop booths. If so, I may have an arm around my Mom leading her to walk faster since she lives life at a very slow pace. That’s one thing in particular that I find special about her. I adore the fact that she truly lives life. She drives slower, walks slower, and even talks more calmly and softly than other people. She stops to smell the roses and in return, appreciates life a lot more than letting it slip through her fingers. I, on the other hand, do everything in a fast paced. To me, there’s not enough time in the day, but when I’m with my Mom, I’m forced to slow down because she doesn’t know the definition of “rushing.”

Did you know that I hired a life coach once? I hired him for 2 months to work on myself last year. I was really stressed and confused at one point of my life and wanted someone to convert my energy into something positive and meaningful. I wanted to be completely honest with someone. I didn’t feel like I could tell my Mom or closest friends things about me because they would worry, so I hired someone to confide to that wasn’t closely associated to me. It was one of the best investments I could make during that time and he helped me a lot. Basically, one of the things we worked on was to slow down and take in everything I was doing. Often, I found myself doing things and not realizing the consequences of my actions until afterwards. So he helped me to re-evaluate, think., and breath He also got me into yoga, which is a soft form of meditation for me. And I also learned to give myself some credit…to not beat myself up about things because in reality, I’m a good person and treat others well, too. Kind of like that saying, you have to love yourself first before you can love others.

So why am I telling you all this? Because I’m fortunate to have good natured people around me whom I can learn from and who live a life that I strive for everyday. I can only hope you have some people like that in your life, too. It’s good to have the right people walk the walk, and be a good example for you. Some people have asked me what my Mom thinks about my modeling career? To be honest, she wishes I was doing something else. No Mother wants to see her daughter naked on the net, but she accepts me for it and knows that I’m smart about it. She trusts me and my judgements so she has never, and would never say or do anything to make me feel bad about it. That’s why I love her and respect her so much. I’m grateful to have such a loving and understanding Mother, and it also helps me to take pride in what I do because I know she’s standing behind me every step of the way.

XOXO,

Jayd Lovely

Sex, Sex, and Sex!

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

I haven’t had sex in a while. I won’t even mention how long it’s been because it’s too embarrassing! What gives? I’ve been shaving my legs for nothing? It’s been so long that the thought of it makes me a bit nervous. So let’s pretend you’re the one that’s going to re-pop my cherry :)

After dinner, you take me over to your house to watch a movie. You know I’m super nervous because you’ve read my blog and my blushed cheeks during dinner gave it all away. So you offer me a drink when we arrive to your house. I ask for a glass of wine and you bring it out with some strawberries and grapes on a platter. Yummy, dessert! You then start the movie and lay a nice throw over our legs. I love how you bring me close to your chest and wrap an arm around me. It’s always a turn on when a man makes the first move. The couch gets a bit warmer now between our shared body heat and blanket. After the movie starts some, you take a grape and feed it to me. I close my eyes and take a small bite, enjoying the senses of taste. It pairs with my white wine perfectly and I feel a tingle down my spine. You then pick up a strawberry and tell me to keep my eyes close. I do as you say and you slowly brush it around my lips. I stick out my tongue to eagerly taste it, but you move it away. You tell me to be patient, so I wait with a big, naughty smile. You then put it on my lips again and I slowly bite into it. The juice from the fruit squeezes out and drips down my lip to my chin. You then lick it before it slides down my throat with your own hot tongue. I let out a soft moan because your tongue feels so good and I want it all over my body, not just my neck.

I open up my eyes while you kiss my neck. I start to take off my dress. At this point, I want it all and it’s been way to long since I’ve had some cock. You motion me to take my time, but I’m in a hurry. The dynamics change a bit and now I’m in control. I start taking off your shirt in between some giggles and get you completely naked. I instantly land my tongue and mouth all over that hard, beautiful cock of yours. Taking it entirely whole, I suck on it hard and slow. I’m like a caged animal that just got loose. I deep throat it until I can feel your balls on my lips. When your dick can’t get any harder, I jump on top of it. I begin to straddle and wrap my legs around your back. You suck the nipples of my breasts and grab the cheeks of my ass apart. I begin to lower myself onto your manhood and ride the hell out of it. Up and down, and all around. My pussy is so wet, it’s smearing all over your thighs and legs. The wetter I get, the harder you get. It feels so amazing and I’m moaning, “Oh God!” I completely lose myself when you’re in me…I’m on cloud 9, your dick feels so good. I ride it really deep as to not waste an inch when I can feel myself climaxing. It doesn’t take long, but it’s a strong one. I scream your name at the top of my lungs and collapse. Finally, getting back to reality, I kiss you slowly all over. “Thank you, thank you, thank you. I really needed that.” You tell me you’re up for helping me out anytime, anywhere. I ask you to give me 5 minutes? You smile :) I have a lot of catching up to do.

Sweet Kisses,

Jayd Lovely

Frenemies?

Sunday, January 4, 2009

What is a frenemy? It’s someone who is your “friend” and enemy all at the same time. Someone who acts like a friend to you, but is always jealous and has ulterior motives behind your back. Another name for a frenemy could be a “hater.”

I think I hit a brick wall with a lot of my so called friends last year. Fortunately, I have a handful of really good, genuine people whom I adore and trust. Unfortunately, there are a lot of acquaintances whom I have found out are just draining my energy and time. I consider myself a good judge of character and have made the distinction between true friends and acquaintances, but lately, I feel that some acquaintances have been drowning me with their sorrows and drama more so than before. Sometimes, I think I’m too nice to people. I’m a great listener and people feel comfortable to confide and talk to me about their thoughts and problems. That’s great, but lately, I feel drained from hearing the same stories over and over again, the same dramatic tale that ends the same and begins the same every week. Then I get mad at myself for allowing them to drain me of that energy and take advantage of my kindness. How do they take advantage of my kindness? Because they never ask about how I’m doing, how things are going? And they simply think that just because I don’t complain much about anything, that I must be on drugs or something because I just let everything roll off my shoulders? Not quite. Everyone has problems, but I choose to deal with it differently. Actually, I take it out in the gym and then move on. I just try to keep my sanity and stay positive. That’s the major difference between me and them.

I just had to vent about this because if I put it in writing, then it’ll help finalize a new resolution for me: Remain a better friend for my friends and get rid of as many superficial relationships as possible. I need to stop “being there” for people who wouldn’t return the same favor because they’re too self-centered to have any capacity of empathy. There! I said it! Whew…I actually feel a lot better now that I got that off my bosoms, lol.

Thanks for listening to me vent, I love you guys! I know a lot of you can relate because it’s human nature to come across these situations and even be guilty of doing it. I know I have and that’s why I want a change. I’m way to happy with my life right now to let anyone take that away from me., especially people who are just acquaintances.

Oh! I’m off to Vegas this week. It’s the AVN awards, too but I will be there modeling for another event. I wonder if you guys will be there visiting your favorite adult stars? If you see me, be sure to say hi. I’ll be the one taking pictures with every porn star with a size DDD or larger breasts! Haha! Just like a true Asian tourist!

XOXO

Jayd Lovely

The Last Day of 2008!!!

Wednesday, December 31, 2008

OMG! Can you believe the year ends tonight??!!! Happy New Year Loves!!!! I always get super excited for the new year. New beginnings, new experiences, new friends, new loves, new meals, and more sex! Have you thought about your new year’s resolutions? Here are mine:

-Get more sleep! I never realized how soft my skin could feel when I actually sleep in. My Mom always tells me that sleeping in is our family’s beauty secret and I’m just slow to learn.

-Tone up abs and butt. I know there not bad right now, but I’m a perfectionist and there’s improvement to be made!

-Learn how to be an affiliate of my site and drive more traffic to it. Look, I know I can’t rely on my charm and good looks for the rest of my life so I need to branch off into other things so I can define a long-term career for myself. I love the adult industry and want to remain in it, but perhaps learning how to do things behind the scenes can help me move on when I age. I know that’s not for a while, too but it’s never too late to plan, right? Don’t worry! I’m not going any where anytime soon!!!

-Do cyber chats! I REALLY want to entertain and interact with you all. It’s a fantasy of mine…how sexy would that be? I just think cyber sexing with all of you would be a lot of fun and pleasure for me. I keep nagging Woody from Foxes to get on it! :)

-Buy a new condo. Mine is too small and not in the safest of neighborhoods. The market sucks right now, but I’ve saved up some money and would really like to upgrade into a safer community and have a garage!

-Masturbate!!! Yes, folks…I plan to get a bit naughtier on my site and that will include solo masturbation with a possible cucumber or lollipop here and there!

-Remain in better contact with my family and friends. I have improved on this this year as it was the past year’s resolution, but I know I can be better at it. We’re all busy, but we have to make time to communicate and stay in touch with our loved ones.

-Get into Playboy. I don’t want to be a playmate, but I would really like to be a cyber girl and add it to my credentials.

-Travel to Thailand or Costa Rica in 2009. Remember my goal of using my passport at least once a year? 2008′s trip was to the Dominican Republic. 2009 will either be Thailand or Costa Rica. I’m rooting for Thailand, first!

By the way, I had a great birthday celebration in San Diego, CA. The weather was a bit chilly but I did enjoy a great birthday cake at Extraordinary Desserts, my favorite bakery. I also saw my Mom and had dim sum for breakfast at a great restaurant in West Minister. Dim sum is a chinese tradition. Usually at these restaurants, they have carts that go by your table with different sorts of plates and you choose which ones you want to try. Then they stamp a ticket which tallies up your meals for the cashier at the end of your dining experience. Thank you for your birthday wishes and holiday cheer. Woody from Foxes.com forwarded me an email from a member who really made my morning that day. I hope you all have a great new year’s eve celebration and I look forward to pleasing your wildest fantasies even more in 2009.

Love,

Jayd Lovely :) XO